Here are ways you can try to prevent cheating. Threats don’t work and will only create a hostile relationship which makes us prone to checking out other options. Instead, remain positive and focus strictly on making your current relationship even better than it already is. Build the relationship to the point where cheating not only looks like a bad idea, but it would be the worst choice he could ever make.
Most men
don't cheat because they don't love you anymore.Men cheat because they want
more variety in their sex lives.
Some complain of being bored. They want to feel adored
by their partners. They want to assert their freedom. They are tired of
disappointing you.
The
average good guy, however, doesn’t go into a relationship wanting to cheat. In
fact, he wants a great relationship just as much as you do. So, put away the
negative head games and get the relationship moving in a great direction with a
prosperous future. If there is too much good to lose, chances are pretty high
that he won’t screw things up for a side piece of meat.
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#1 Stop The Nagging
He walks
in the door and you immediately start in on him, “Why didn’t you call me during
your lunch break? I waited for you to call and I texted you at least ten times.
Where were you? Don’t you love me? Why do you always do this to me?”
Thirty
minutes later, you bring it up again. This time you drill into his head that he
has to call you tomorrow afternoon during his lunch.
By now
he is beyond grouchy and you are just being an annoying nag. Let it
go. Seriously. If you love your man, give him some space. He is an adult. If he
has time to call you, then he will call you. If you keep bugging him about it,
he will start dreading the very sound of your voice.
Nagging
is a huge relationship killer and it can easily drive a man to turn to another
woman for comfort.
#2- Pull
Him Back Into The Relationship
He seems
to be drifting further and further away from you. When he comes over, he barely
talks to you. In the bedroom, it seems like he is a million miles away. Before
you lose him completely, you need to pull him back into the relationship.
#3 Don’t
Accuse Him Of It
There is
nothing more annoying than being with someone who constantly accuses you of
cheating, especially when you haven’t cheated. For example, my ex-boyfriend was
always accusing me of flirting with other men or he would accuse me of cheating
on him while he was at work. I wasn’t cheating and I never did cheat on him,
but that is just how stubborn I am on the subject. If I was a weaker person, I
would have proved the son of a gun right and gotten myself a new man to replace
his butt.
When you
accuse someone of cheating all the time, they are likely to give into the urge
to cheat. After all, you already suspect him of it so nothing is going to
change if he finds a side piece. You will just keep on accusing him of it.
If you
are absolutely certain a man is cheating on you, then leave him. Otherwise,
keep quiet and stop bugging him about it.
#4 Be
Willing To Try New Things
Doing
the same old thing each and every day is boring, especially when it comes to
the bedroom. If you really want to get your man’s attention and prevent him
from cheating on you, start getting creative. Do some research online on how to
spruce up the bedroom action. Bring in the toys and check out the bedroom games
you both can play together. Get some lingerie and play dress up.
Be
willing to try new things outside of the bedroom, too. Look into hobbies for
couples or take up a sport together, such as mountain climbing.
Search
the local activity boards for events that the two of you can enjoy together.
Try wine tasting, beer festivals, or group walks. There is simply so much you
and your man can do together so that you can keep your relationship fun and
exciting for the rest of your days.
#5 Give Him
Alone Time
Let your
man have his personal space where he can go to be alone and tinker with
whatever makes him happy. If you can, the two of you can plan daily or weekly
alone time to do whatever you want.
You
should also give him time to go hang out with his friends without you calling
him incessantly. You, on the other hand, can go hang out with your friends and
unwind.
Learn to
trust him enough to let him do his own thing and work on any pet projects he
has. He will absolutely love it and so will you. You will get so much more done
during the free time if you learn to give him his space.
#6 Your
Appearance Matters
Many
people think that once they are in an established relationship they can let
themselves go. That means no more makeup, putting on a few pounds, and skimping
on hygiene. Guess what? That is the quickest way to lose a partner plus it is
really unhealthy for you.
If you
find yourself slipping on your looks, it is time to take action. Don’t think of
it as pleasing your man (although it does), but look at it as an opportunity to
be your very best. Brush your teeth twice a day, take a daily shower, and for
goodness sake get some exercise.
When a
person lets her looks go to crap, she starts thinking less of herself and her
man starts to feel the same way about her. Don’t let that happen, and if it
already has, make the change today.
#7 Learn his love
language.
If you are not
familiar with Dr. Gary Chapman's The Five Love Languages, please read it. It has the potential to save more marriages
than marriage counseling has. Learn your man's love language and speak it to
him regularly. He will know he is loved and remain true to you.
#8 Find his
relationship pattern
I do not know how to combat the biology argument. Some men
simply believe it is hard-wired into their genes to have sexual relations with
as many women as they can. If this is your man, it probably won't matter what
you do. Try to recognize these men early on by asking about their dating
history.
If this is a pattern with your man, he probably isn't
likely to change just because you love him best. Your best defense against this
problem is to be discriminating at the onset.
If you have read this
article and wonder, what about him? What does he need to do?
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